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During our meal, which was arranged to last 90 minutes and ends exactly on time, “whatever” is one of the words she uses most, in a way that makes her sound wary of having to narrativize her own life.

Something that you’ve struggled with is the impulse to experience something purely versus the impulse to narrativize it.

It’s an uncharacteristic moment of bravado for Grainge, who will happily dish about others but is more reserved when discussing himself; indeed, his general aversion to the oversharing endemic to social media — Grainge’s verified Twitter account boasts exactly one tweet — is a funny trait for someone preparing to marry a woman whose job is to narrativize her life.

It becomes easy — and honestly, sometimes really satisfying — to narrativize perceived hosts' slights like a modern-day parable.

It becomes easy — and honestly, sometimes really satisfying — to narrativize perceived hosts' slights like a modern-day parable.