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self-talk
noun
- the act or practice of talking to oneself, either aloud or silently and mentally
positive self-talk
Example Sentences
The renowned author and speaker said athletes, especially women, can fall into cycles of negative self-talk.
If I forget something, I spiral into negative self-talk on the way back to the store.
So far, she’s released a bathetic tribute ballad to firefighters, a wannabe anthem about positive self-talk, and a cover of Tom Petty’s “I Won’t Back Down,” which she sang live at Mar-a-Lago’s annual New Year’s Eve party a few weeks ago.
Then I found out that just by using kind self-talk, I could get a client to feel calm in five minutes if they learn to focus their minds on wishing themselves well.
The thing I love about kind internal self-talk is that as you start to bring a little kindness into the equation, you then start to become like one of my favorite Persian poets, Hafiz.
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More About Self-talk
What is self-talk?
Self-talk is the act or practice of talking to oneself aloud or mentally.
Self-talk, or talking to yourself is a normal, common practice. Sometimes people will engage in self-talk as a way to remind themselves to do something or to acquire something, such as reminding yourself to bring your homework with you to school. People will also use self-talk as a way of creating sound when it’s too quiet or to feel less alone.
While people talking to themselves out loud is common, deranged, excessive, or erratic self-talk can be a sign of an anxiety attack or a mental illness.
Mental self-talk is your internal dialogue, that is, the thoughts in your head or inner speech. According to psychology, the primary way humans think and reason seems to be through mental self-talk.
Example: I always try to engage in some positive self-talk before I go for a job interview.
Where does self-talk come from?
The first records of the term self-talk come from around the 1570s. It combines the combining form self–, meaning “to or with oneself ,” and talk, meaning “to communicate by speaking.”
Mental self-talk can be positive or negative and is usually controlled by the subconscious mind. Positive self-talk is often associated with confidence, reassurance, and clear thinking, while negative self-talk is normally related to anxiety, depression, clouded thinking, and irrational behavior. Many therapists and psychologists will work with patients to maintain or supplement positive self-talk and avoid negative self-talk.
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How is self-talk used in real life?
Most often self-talk is used to discuss how we talk to ourselves in terms of mental well-being.
it takes so much work to unlearn behavioral patterns you adopted out of self defense, and so much time to actively & consistently counteract the negative self talk you let stand unchallenged for years. it’s tiring.
— justice (@justiceaudre)
6 ways to stop negative self-talk:
-remind yourself how far you've come.
-remember that feelings aren't facts.
-accept that nobody's perfect.
-celebrate your small victories.
-stop comparing yourself to others.
-give yourself the same grace you give to others.— let my people glo ✨ (@MichellCClark)
self talk in Ireland: ‘don’t buy a tweed flat cap. you wont wear a tweed flat cap. don’t buy a tweed flat cap….'
— marc maron (@marcmaron)
Try using self-talk!
Is self-talk used correctly in the following sentence?
I have been practicing positive self-talk by reminding myself rest is a need, not a reward.
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