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Those are the things 27-year-old Tori Mattei in New York has discovered on her own over the last four years of singlehood.

Rebecca Traister: There have been all kinds of panics over marriage and singlehood in the United States.

Nobody in the current cohort, however, has leveraged singlehood more effectively than Mr. Modi, said Neerja Chowdhury, a political commentator and editor.

In a country that's often described as being "obsessed with marriage", a lot of stigma still surrounds singlehood.

But, Ms Kundu says, she's seeing "many more women now who are single by choice, not just by circumstances" and it's this "changing face of singlehood" that's important to acknowledge.